ST. PAUL, Minn. — For years, Luke Kunin watched as his girlfriend, then fiancée, then spouse, Sophia, supported his profession.
She was a shoulder to lean on when issues acquired powerful in Minnesota. Moved to Nashville when he was traded there. Was a relentless throughout the hardest season of his professional profession — final yr with the San Jose Sharks, when he tore his ACL.
So Kunin can’t wait to stroll into Xcel Vitality Heart — the sector the place he started his NHL profession as a Minnesota Wild rookie seven years in the past — on Saturday with the shoe on the opposite foot. The 1 p.m. CDT recreation might be his first time watching Sophia play on the highest stage in particular person, as she’ll take the ice with Minnesota’s Skilled Ladies’s Hockey League crew to face Boston in its regular-season dwelling finale forward of subsequent month’s playoffs.
“I’ll get to see what it’s all about,” Luke mentioned. “I’ve watched her video games on the web all yr — as a lot as I can with our schedule — however I consider all of the issues she’s sacrificed for me through the years so I can reside out my dream. I can’t wait to be there to help her and watch her reside her dream.”
Luke and Sophia Kunin’s relationship has helped them come by means of a lot to reach at this level. Assembly as youngsters. Watching one another excel in hockey. Changing into school sweethearts. And Luke being Sophia’s “rock each step of the way in which” after essentially the most traumatic occasion of her life, the demise of her youthful brother, Drake, in the beginning of her sophomore yr.
Luke, 26, is a hard-nosed, hard-working ahead for the Sharks who hails from suburban St. Louis. Sophia, 27, who grew up in Wayzata, Minn., and is now one in all PWHL Minnesota’s quickest, most dependable forwards, was often called Sophia Shaver till the Kunins have been married final summer season within the Twin Cities.
They’re the one husband and spouse skilled hockey gamers of their respective high leagues in North America.
For now.
“I feel the extra our league’s round, the extra we’re going to begin to see it,” mentioned U.S. Hockey Corridor of Famer Natalie Darwitz, GM of PWHL Minnesota and a two-time NCAA champion with the College of Minnesota. “To not say that romances are going to occur left and proper on the rink, however as extra franchises begin to share amenities and we’re round, it solely is sensible as a result of who higher to know the opposite’s schedule and dedication than one other skilled hockey participant.
“To me, Luke and Sophia is such a cool story. It’d be even cooler if Luke nonetheless performed for the Wild.”
Luke and Sophia met on the College of Wisconsin earlier than their freshman years. Luke was an incoming males’s hockey participant for a Badgers crew he’d in the end captain as a sophomore. Sophia was an incoming ladies’s hockey participant for a Badgers crew she’d in the end captain and assist result in an NCAA championship with the profitable objective within the title recreation.
At Wisconsin, athletes normally come to Madison for summer season coaching earlier than the college yr begins.
“We truly have been each in the identical dorm,” Sophia recalled. “It was a small dorm with us — ladies’s hockey — males’s hockey, each basketballs after which some observe folks. We had plenty of time on our arms so we’d hang around on a regular basis. We’d see one another on the rink. Began off as buddies after which actually shortly simply began relationship within the fall of our freshman yr.”
They’ve been collectively since, though as a result of Luke performs for San Jose and Sophia was a part of the Minnesota crew within the inaugural PWHL season, they have been newlyweds who hardly ever acquired to see one another throughout this primary yr as husband and spouse.
Wild winger Marcus Foligno could also be six years older than Luke, however the two hit it off straight away when Luke arrived in Minnesota as a rookie, changing into such good friends that Foligno was a groomsman within the Kunins’ marriage ceremony, together with Luke’s former Nashville Predators teammate Colton Sissons and childhood finest buddy Matthew Tkachuk.
In early March, when the Sharks got here to Minnesota for his or her first go to of 2023-24, Foligno was so excited to see his previous buddy that he requested if he wished to have dinner the night time earlier than the sport. He forgot, in fact, that Luke would most likely somewhat spend a while along with his spouse.
“He’s like, ‘Dude, I haven’t seen Sophia in two months,’” Foligno mentioned, laughing. “I’m like, ‘Oh my God, that’s proper. You guys have a loopy way of life.’ I don’t understand how they do it. I’d go insane if I didn’t see my spouse on a regular basis, particularly the primary yr of our marriage.”
However as powerful as it’s, the Kunins have carried out the long-distance factor typically of their relationship since Kunin left Wisconsin after his sophomore yr to show professional.
“It’s powerful, however we’re form of used to it,” Sophia mentioned. “We’ve been aside plenty of our lives. And with each of our schedules, we form of have the identical schedule. So we’re each unavailable to one another all through the day. We’re right here on the rink after which we get to catch up at night time.”
Added Luke, “We each love taking part in and each love what we’re doing and simply need to take pleasure in it so long as we will or so long as each of us need to do it, I assume. Yeah, it’s powerful being separated. You need to see one another. Nevertheless it’s cool to see all the things that she’s been doing and the way in which the league’s going, how a lot enjoyable she’s having.”
Sophia had simply performed a weekend sequence in opposition to St. Cloud State when she acquired the devastating name from her mother and father, Cristen and Tom, on Oct. 2, 2016, that Drake had taken his personal life. A highschool hockey and lacrosse participant, an avid outdoorsman who cherished searching and fishing, Drake was solely 17.
“He was a really joyful, regular, in style man,” Sophia mentioned. “That’s why it got here as such a shock to all of us as a result of we’d’ve by no means seen the indicators. He appeared to have all the things collectively, however he was struggling on the within and didn’t need to open up.”
Sophia returned dwelling however got here again to highschool every week later. She buried herself in as a lot schoolwork and hockey as she may, however she was not doing OK.
Luke was one in all her steady technique of help.
“That is most likely one of many the explanation why we’re so robust collectively as a result of we’d solely have been relationship for a yr at that time,” Sophia mentioned. “I needed to lean on him a ton that yr as a result of it was clearly the toughest yr of my life. That yr and even years previous, simply having him there for me — and he was so good about simply checking in and ensuring I used to be doing OK, it’s most likely how I acquired by means of it. And bear in mind, he’s going by means of a yr the place he’s attempting to make it to the NHL, too, so he had a troublesome time with it as properly, and I’ll simply endlessly be glad about him for that.”
Luke was solely 18 on the time and was heartbroken for Sophia and her household. He had began to grow to be shut along with her mother and father and siblings, together with Sophia’s sister, Crosby, who went to the Air Pressure Academy, was a pilot who flew refueler jets and now has an unbiased contracting job in Washington, D.C.
“I nonetheless can’t think about what she was going by means of and her household, and I simply wished to be there for her and her household,” Luke mentioned. “Yeah, it was powerful. Drake was such a great child, and I feel the way in which she dealt with all the things and continues to deal with all the things, she is loopy robust mentally, simply to get by means of that. She form of retains all the things shifting ahead and in the proper course.
“The best way she needed to deal with herself when it occurred has actually helped flip her into the particular person she is right this moment. Day by day, she simply goes about her enterprise and is nice and first rate to everybody she meets. I do know she says I helped her by means of that point, however she’s the hardest particular person I’ve ever met. Nonetheless is, and we nonetheless discuss Drake on a regular basis when the households are collectively, and he’s nonetheless an enormous a part of our household for certain.”
Luke could be very shut with Sophia’s household, particularly her dad, Tom, who takes him to their cabin in Crosslake to go fishing and searching.
“Luke was by no means into it as a result of he simply didn’t develop up with it, however now he’s acquired an actual ardour for the outside and loves hanging with my dad,” Sophia mentioned. “They’ve identified him since he was 17, so my dad loves educating Luke issues about fishing and searching. They’ve form of grown collectively by means of that, and so they actually do consider him as a son.”
As powerful of a yr because the Sharks had, profitable solely 19 video games, Luke scored 11 targets, acquired right into a team-leading 9 fights, led the crew’s forwards with 165 hits and wore a letter on his chest. Basic supervisor Mike Grier mentioned he epitomized what the crew is on the lookout for in San Jose, somebody prepared to battle each night time.
A restricted free agent, Luke hopes to signal a long-term deal there this offseason.
And Sophia, who scored a objective in Minnesota’s first recreation at Boston, is a participant Darwitz feels will show fairly helpful as soon as the playoffs start. Each crew has high-end talent, however Darwitz believes the groups that separate themselves would be the ones with high-end depth offered by gamers like Sophia, who has scored two targets and an help in 21 video games.
Brittyn Fleming forces a turnover and Wayzata Native Sophia Kunin goes high shelf. Minnesota up 2-0! pic.twitter.com/VTu0tY8wxs
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“In any playoff run, it’s your depth,” Darwitz mentioned. “Sophia’s an enormous a part of our secondary scoring due to her velocity. She’s acquired good hockey IQ. She makes stuff occur. Normally, plenty of her play is with out the puck — how properly she angles, creates a turnover. Does she need to be on this stat sheet extra? Completely. Ought to she be? She may very well be. She has the potential and the talent. However she’s doing precisely what we want from her proper now.”
Luke and Sophia don’t do plenty of offseason coaching collectively. In Nashville, when Sophia was a industrial actual property dealer, she skated with the Junior Preds excessive schoolers to maintain in form and hold taking part in. However within the summertime now, although they’re each professionals, Luke does his personal factor and he or she does her factor with a bunch of girls who play professionally.
“She’s labored loopy laborious to get to the place she is,” Luke mentioned. “And I feel it’s superior for the gamers to have one thing to sit up for post-college. It’s been nice to see how properly the turnouts have been when it comes to attendance and the way properly the league’s going. Clearly, it’s actual younger, however hopefully good issues to return for each her and the league.
“Sophia does just a little little bit of all the things. I’ve seen her play in school, and just like me, simply seeing the transition from her school recreation to professional is absolutely cool. She’s very well-rounded. I’m simply having a blast watching her have enjoyable and simply hope her and her crew does properly.”
Foligno acquired to learn the beginning lineup within the locker room for PWHL Minnesota’s first-ever dwelling recreation. Two of his younger daughters have been by his aspect, and he hoped it might make an impression lengthy into the long run that girls have been about to play an expert hockey recreation.
“And my women know who Sophia is for certain,” Foligno mentioned. “Luke and Sophia are two nice individuals who come from nice households. The entire long-distance relationship after getting married is wild in itself, however they’re two folks which can be keen about what they do and help one another, which is fairly cool. It’s why they’ve been collectively for thus lengthy. To not be sappy, however Luke actually loves his lady, so it’s cool to see them taking part in professionally and having success whereas doing it, too.”
Kunin is again in Minnesota for now, however he’ll head to Czechia subsequent month with the U.S. nationwide crew to participate on this planet championships. In 2017, he captained the U.S. to world juniors gold.
He’s simply excited that in this brief keep he’ll get to soak up one in all Sophia’s video games.
And to hang around along with his finest buddy, their spunky 4-year-old French Bulldog, Rocco.
“Luke misses Rocco greater than me when he’s away,” Sophia mentioned.
“He’s my favourite,” Luke joked. “However Sophia would possibly take just a little higher care of him than I may in San Jose, so he stays right here. It’s at all times powerful leaving him, particularly as a result of after I come again, he pouts at first as a result of he’s so mad I used to be gone. He will get over it, however the cycle at all times repeats itself.”
This has been a protracted, lengthy yr for the Kunins being separated. On their marriage ceremony day final July, Luke stole the present on the reception by grabbing the mic and singing rock n’ roll songs like Fall Out Boy’s “Sugar, We’re Goin Down.”
“He’s not a great singer in any respect, by the way in which,” Sophia cracked.
A number of NHLers have been there, together with Matthew and Brady Tkachuk, Sissons, Dante Fabbro, Ryan Hartman, Jordan Greenway and Foligno.
A number of of Sophia’s former teammates have been bridesmaids, together with Abby Roque, who performs for PWHL New York.
“Abby is form of the Matthew Tkachuk of our league: talks smack, form of a rat, so naturally we paired them collectively as bridesmaid and groomsman and so they walked down the aisle collectively,” Sophia mentioned, laughing.
That is life as an NHL-PWHL couple. Having fun with the moments they get collectively and appreciating one another’s careers as they attempt to fulfill the identical goals.
Even Grier mentioned, “I hear it in Luke’s voice when he talks concerning the league and talks about Sophia. He’s so happy with her and will get such enjoyment watching her play hockey.”
“I feel we’re each tremendous grateful that we, one, met in school and acquired to play school hockey, however then to proceed our careers each professionally,” Sophia mentioned. “It’s a brilliant distinctive expertise. It’s very nice to simply have another person that’s going by means of the very same factor as you. Our seasons are occurring on the similar time. We get to speak concerning the highs and lows.
“To have somebody like that as your companion is absolutely particular for us.”
(Prime photographs courtesy of Sophia Kunin)