Feb. 9 2024, Revealed 8:00 a.m. ET
Doja Cat’s household has skilled turmoil for years earlier than her mother obtained a everlasting restraining order in opposition to the singer’s brother.
As RadarOnline.com first reported, lately, Doja’s mother Deborah Sawyer was granted a 5-year restraining order in opposition to her son Raman Dalithando Dlamini.
Dlamini isn’t allowed to come back inside 100 yards of Sawyer. The order will expire on January 31, 2029.
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In her petition, Sawyer claimed her son’s habits had change into more and more erratic. She pleaded for an order prohibiting Dlamini from harassing her, Doja, and Dlamini’s 13-year-old son.
Sawyer advised the court docket Dlamini had been abusive to Doja prior to now — and allegedly knocked out her enamel throughout one encounter. The submitting mentioned Dlamini had destroyed Doja’s property.
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In her paperwork, Sawyer claimed her son spoke to her “in a really degrading and demeaning” method. She mentioned his habits made her really feel “unsafe” and anxious for what he may do.
She mentioned Dlamini had “choked” her and “threatened to hit me a number of instances.”
“He has made so many feedback which are so deeply hurtful and offensive that I really feel I’ve needed to block them from reminiscence simply to go on day after day,” she mentioned. “He makes use of these bullying techniques to govern me into giving him more cash, more cash then what’s rational and cheap. It places further stress on me to work so exhausting, after which he abuses me and it’s exhausting for me to recuperate to finish my work duties”
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Sawyer claimed her son yelled at her in entrance of his son in November 2023. She mentioned he known as her a “f—— lazy nasty white b—-.”
Now, RadarOnline.com has uncovered Sawyer obtained guardianship of Dlamini’s son in 2017.
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In her submitting, Sawyer claimed her grandson’s mom had deserted the kid. She mentioned the mom lived at her dwelling with the kid for a yr after the beginning.
Nonetheless, she mentioned the mom left and solely had sporadic contact with the kid. Sawyer claimed the mom had moved to Colorado however turned hooked on “crystal meth and heroin.”
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On the time, Sawyer mentioned the mom solely contacted the kid each week or each different week.
Sawyer claimed her son was “not capable of care” for the child. She mentioned her son had “extreme anger administration points.”
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She advised the court docket, “He tends to bully and threaten so as to get what he desires. Up to now, he has verbally and bodily abused me, and my daughter who lives with me.” The daughter she referred to is Doja.
“He has known as us demeaning names, wishing our loss of life over petty issues, and has put his arms round my neck threatening extra abuse,” Sawyer mentioned. She mentioned she obtained a restraining order in opposition to him in 2017.
Sawyer mentioned her son had by no means bodily abused his baby however mentioned, “I’m afraid he might accomplish that.”
The court docket granted Sawyer’s petition and appointed her authorized guardian of the kid.
Within the petition, Sawyer revealed she had not spoken to her son and Doja’s father, Dumisani Dlamini, in 24 years. She mentioned she solely knew he lived in South Africa.