Arjun Kapoor has been open about his views on love, and following his breakup with Malaika Arora, he has shared what a super relationship means to him.
Chatting with News18 Showsha, the actor emphasised the significance of companionship past fixed togetherness. “Jo de uska bhi bhala, jo na de uska bhi bhala (Bless those that give, and bless those that don’t),” he mentioned, stressing the significance of discovering consolation with a companion even throughout moments of silence. “What I would like from love right this moment is somebody to share my silences with and that’s crucial. Even for those who’re in two completely different areas, you’ll be able to nonetheless be related with out having to talk on a regular basis. The thought is to share issues with out even realising it,” he mentioned.
For Arjun, love isn’t about being inseparable however about discovering consolation in each other’s presence. “There must be consolation and ease. You need to’ve to look ahead to going again and spending time along with your individual after ending the day. Love doesn’t imply staying collectively with the individual on a regular basis. You ought to be desirous to genuinely construct your life with them. It’s obligatory for 2 folks to know one another’s professions, too,” he added.
However what does this attitude say about fashionable relationships and the way folks outline love right this moment? An skilled weighs in.
Significance of shared silence in a relationship, and what it says about emotional compatibility
Deepti Chandy, COO and therapist at Anna Chandy and Associates, tells indianexpress.com, “I believe it’s necessary to qualify what sort of silence it’s. If it’s a snug silence, it signifies excessive emotional compatibility and is a robust signal of emotional intimacy. Nonetheless, if silence is used as a tactic for stonewalling or punishing, or if it feels uncomfortable for both companion, that could be a concern.”
If each companions are comfy being collectively in silence, she says that it signifies a “deep emotional connection.”
Continually being round one another vs. having house
Chandy notes, “Being round one another on a regular basis doesn’t essentially strengthen a relationship. It’s necessary to discover a wholesome stability between togetherness and private house. Whereas there’s a set of people that imagine within the notion of a companion as your ‘different half’ and imagine in spending all their time collectively, which may result in codependency fairly than fostering a wholesome interdependency.”
This concept of continually being collectively is a fad, she continues, as fashionable relationships more and more recognise the worth of individuality. Private house is crucial for romantic relationships to thrive, permitting each companions to keep up their sense of self, pursue private pursuits, and are available along with renewed power.
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Interdependency means coming collectively for shared actions whereas additionally sustaining particular person lives — having your individual associates, pursuits, and private house. This stability permits for a more healthy, extra sustainable relationship.